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Angry Military Families Hammer Pentagon Pete Goon

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Thousands of sailors and Marines have been on board the USS Lincoln since late November, with no clear timeline of when they will return amid the Iran war.

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Military families confronted Acting Navy Secretary Hung Cao over conditions aboard the USS Abraham Lincoln and the lack of a clear date for its crew to return home.

About 200 relatives of sailors and Marines attended a meeting on Thursday with Cao at Naval Air Station North Island in San Diego, where they raised concerns about mental health, food and supply shortages, water quality and problems receiving mail, MS Now reports. Some spouses were in tears as they pressed Navy officials for answers.

The world's largest aircraft carrier USS Gerald R. Ford arrives at Souda Bay naval base after having been part of Middle East war operations, on the island of Crete on March 23, 2026. The United States and Israel launched a massive air campaign against Iran in late February following a major US military buildup in the Middle East that included the Ford and another aircraft carrier, the Abraham Lincoln. (Photo by Costas METAXAKIS / AFP via Getty Images)
Deployment hit 259 days as of Friday. COSTAS METAXAKIS/AFP via Getty Images

Cao has served as the Navy’s top civilian since April, when Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth fired Navy Secretary John Phelan after the two repeatedly clashed.

Thursday’s meeting was focused on the conditions facing the roughly 5,000 sailors and Marines aboard the Lincoln.

UNITED STATES - JUNE 26: Hung Cao, nominee to serve as under secretary of the Navy, attends his Senate Armed Services Committee confirmation hearing in Dirksen building on Thursday, June 26, 2025. (Tom Williams/CQ-Roll Call, Inc via Getty Images)
Cao took the top role following the abrupt departure and removal of the previous Secretary, John Phelan Tom Williams/CQ-Roll Call, Inc via Getty Imag

One parent said her daughter felt she was never going to come home and believed she would die aboard the ship. Another woman questioned the mission itself, saying she found it difficult to be proud of her sailor because she believed the military was “killing innocent civilians.” Her comments were met with applause.

The Lincoln left San Diego on Nov. 21 and had been deployed for 259 days as of Friday. The carrier spent 208 consecutive days at sea before making a brief stop in Oman on July 7, setting a modern-day record during the ongoing war with Iran.

AT SEA, UNSPECIFIED - MARCH 2: (EDITOR'S NOTE: This handout image was provided by a third-party organization and may not adhere to Getty Images' editorial policy) In this handout released by the U.S. Navy, an F-35C Lightning II, attached to Marine Fighter Attack Squadron (VMFA) 314, is staged for flight operations on the flight deck of the Nimitz-class aircraft carrier USS Abraham Lincoln (CVN 72) in support of Operation Epic Fury on March 2, 2026 at sea. Iran's Supreme Leader, Ayatollah Ali Khamenei, was confirmed killed after the United States and Israel launched a joint attack on Iran on February 28. Iran retaliated by firing waves of missiles and drones at Israel, and targeting U.S. allies in the region. (Photo by U.S. Navy via Getty Images)
Families feel “confused” and “frustrated” not knowing when their loved ones will return home. U.S. Navy/Getty Images

Cao told families that the USS Theodore Roosevelt strike group is being prepared to deploy to the Middle East and relieve the Lincoln. But he could not say when that would happen, citing operational security.

The uncertainty has left families waiting as their loved ones miss major events at home, including births and funerals.

FALLS CHURCH, VIRGINIA - AUGUST 26: Republican presidential nominee, former U.S. President Donald Trump speaks alongside Republican candidate for U.S. Senate in Virginia Hung Cao at the Truong Tien Restaurant in the Eden Center on August 26, 2024 in Falls Church, Virginia. Trump visited the Vietnamese restaurant to greet supporters and spoke to journalists about the upcoming ABC presidential debate. (Photo by Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images)
Donald Trump selected Hung Cao to be the Under Secretary of the Navy. Anna Moneymaker/Getty Images

“My husband has gotten no time with her,” one spouse said of her baby, who was born during the deployment.

“We have friends that are on this boat as well that - they have yet to meet their children,” she continued. “And I just think, like, a lot of us are kind of confused and just feeling frustrated that right now we’re in limbo of not having a date to come home.”

AT SEA - MARCH 03: (EDITOR’S NOTE: This Handout image was provided by a third-party organization and may not adhere to Getty Images’ editorial policy.) In this handout photo provided by the U.S. Navy, A U.S. Navy Sailor conducts flight operations in an MH-60S Sea Hawk helicopter, attached to Helicopter Sea Combat Squadron (HSC) 14, above Nimitz-class aircraft carrier USS Abraham Lincoln (CVN 72) in support of Operation Epic Fury on March 3, 2026 in the Mediterranean Sea. (Photo by U.S. Navy via Getty Images)
The war in Iran has entered its 23rd week. U.S. Navy/Getty Images

Vice Admiral Douglas Verissimo acknowledged the frustration but said the Navy still could not provide a return date. “I wish we could give that to you,” he said. “We are working to finalize that, but we don’t have that right now.”

Families also raised concerns about exhaustion and the mental health of the crew as the war with Iran nears its 23rd week. Navy officials said deployment-resilience counselors and chaplains are available aboard the carrier.

“We hear you loud and clear the impact this has on families, on service members, and the long-term ability of us to stand, sustain our forces’ health,” Vice Admiral Joseph Cahill said.

There were also questions about living conditions aboard the ship. Navy leaders acknowledged that a “stubborn clog” caused toilets in one area of the carrier to stop working for an extended period. They said what some sailors believed was mold in showers could actually be mildew caused by poor ventilation.

US Defense Secreatry Pete Hegseth looks on before President Donald Trump signs an executive order in the Oval Office of the White House in Washington, DC, on August 3, 2026. (Photo by Jim WATSON / AFP via Getty Images)
Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth demanded a new military policy to test service members for testosterone levels. JIM WATSON/AFP via Getty Images

Cao has followed Hegseth’s lead on his push to restore a so-called “warrior ethos” in the military. Just this week, Cao ordered stricter enforcement of grooming, uniform and fitness standards across the Navy and Marine Corps, echoing Hegseth’s campaign against what he sees as “lax” military standards.